Guest blogger: Tessa

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Seriously, how does my mom rock being bald like this? I think that before she started chemo we were just scared. We didn’t know how she would be and of course we assumed the worst because with cancer everything seems to be the worst. So we imagined how bad it could get, how different she would look, how we would totally lose the mom we were used to… But now that she’s almost finished chemo she’s still mom. Look at her, she’s gorgeous. Yes, she was sleepy but not every day. She felt sick, her hands and feet were awful and red burning and uncomfortable, and it was bad, but not the worst. I guess most things in life are luck-of-the-draw. We got unlucky with cancer but we could have had it way worse, and a lot of people do. I know that a big part of why cancer seems so much less scary now is because of how strong my mom is. Everyone says it but I don’t think a lot of people understand that strong isn’t having something bad happen and saying “it’ll all be good”. It’s waking up at three in the morning when your daughter sleepwalks to invite her to sleep in your bed in case she ends up sleeping through her alarm the next day. It’s making dinner, it’s telling your kids that you will really be okay and live til you’re eighty, and it’s taking off your hat in the movie theatre when you have no hair, because it doesn’t matter.
If I had any other mother I wouldn’t get out of bed in the morning, but her strength is contagious. It’s there every day, just look at her.
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4 Responses

  1. TOTALLY AGREE

  2. Beautiful post. Beautiful pictures. 🙂

  3. Yup she’s one amazing woman ❤ Thanks for sharing, Tessa.
    xoxoxoxox

  4. I missed this one totally! Hey Tessa, you’ll soon have your own blog you write so well. Beautiful pictures. When the hair is gone, I really see your lovely features – eyes, nose, mouth, teeth. You look beautiful bald and the makeup is great! You’re lookin’ good girl!!

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